I'm the OSHA safety officer here at my company...I'm not sure what environment you are working in. Here are some of my recommendations. We use a similar chemical that is just as nasty.
Get away from the spark generation..."You'll put an eye out with that"...A Christmas Story
Remove ALL metal from the process. Try to store MEK in a Polypropylene container.
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You may even find a pump sprayer to help apply the MEK to the spot.
Get away from the cheese cloth...google "Static Free Applicators" Tons of different tools out there.
Anti-static Nitrile gloves and a respirator for fumes should be used...this is piece of mind to the user.
The only grounding that seems feasible is a long wrist strap from the person to a known common ground. I use our compressed air lines or an electrical outlet. Always check continuity between the person and the common ground.