While stainless steel bolts and nuts can provide a reliable mechanical connection, your consideration of using MMA adhesive is interesting. Adhesives can distribute loads across a larger area and potentially minimize stress concentrations compared to bolts. However, proper surface preparation and adhesive selection are crucial for the success of this approach.
your approach of reinforcing the holes and considering load distribution is a thoughtful one. However, due to the safety implications of your design, I strongly recommend seeking professional engineering guidance and potentially conducting simulations to ensure the structural integrity and safety of your trailer design. Your commitment to safety and careful planning will contribute to a successful and reliable end result.